Stop Fighting.
Start Understanding.
The AI coach that helps you say what you mean—without starting a war.
Sound familiar?
Millions of couples struggle with the same communication challenges. The good news? It doesn't have to stay this way.
Every conversation feels like a minefield
You walk on eggshells, afraid that anything you say could start another fight. Simple discussions turn into arguments.
of couples fight about the same issues repeatedly
You love them, but you can't reach them
The emotional distance keeps growing. You're together, but it feels like you're speaking different languages.
of partners feel misunderstood daily
You're afraid of saying the wrong thing
So you say nothing at all. But silence creates its own damage, and the resentment builds on both sides.
of relationship issues stem from poor communication
From conflict to connection
Watch how Pancake transforms heated words into messages that actually get heard.
"You never listen to me! You're always on your phone when I'm trying to talk to you."
Click to see the transformation
No credit card required • 3-day free trial
Tools that actually help
Three powerful ways to transform your communication
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Express what you really mean without starting a fight. Our AI helps you communicate your needs with empathy and clarity.
- Works with any relationship type
- Instant, AI-powered responses
- Based on attachment theory
You never help around the house!
I'm feeling overwhelmed with the housework lately. Would you be open to us figuring out a way to share the load more evenly?
A complete relationship toolkit
Everything you need to grow together — from conversation starters to conflict resolution.
Daily Check-Ins
Track mood & connection with quick daily check-ins and build streaks
Build streaks480 Conversation Starters
Thoughtfully crafted prompts across 8 categories
8 categoriesPractice Mode
Rehearse difficult conversations with AI before the real thing
Build confidenceConflict Resolution
6-step guided framework to navigate disagreements constructively
Premium240+ Date Night Ideas
Curated dates across 6 categories — never have a boring night
6 categoriesGrowth Modules
8 guided exercises for deeper connection and vulnerability
PremiumJournal
Private space to reflect on your relationship journey
Track growthKnow yourself. Know your partner.
Three research-backed quizzes that help you understand your relationship patterns, love languages, and communication style.
Attachment Style
Discover how you connect in relationships
Love Languages
Learn how you give and receive love
Texting Style
Understand your digital communication style
1. When my partner doesn't text back quickly, I...
2. In arguments, I tend to...
3. When someone gets too close, I...
Want to see your full results?
Download Pancake to take the complete quiz and discover your attachment style.
We'll send you a link to download plus tips for your attachment style.
See your relationship evolve
Powerful insights that help you understand patterns and celebrate progress.
Insights Dashboard
Communication patterns, mood trends, and relationship health — all at a glance.
Relationship Health
Track your connection strength over time based on check-ins and engagement.
Weekly Recap
Personalized weekly summary with highlights and actionable tips.
This Week's Highlights
Week of Feb 3Real stories, real transformation
See how Pancake is helping couples communicate better every day.
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Free
- 2 translations per day
- 2 message decodes per day
- 3 coach chats per day
- Attachment style quiz
- Basic insights
- 3 practice sessions per day
- 3 saved phrases
Premium
3-day free trial
- Unlimited translations
- Unlimited decodes
- Unlimited coach chats
- Advanced AI insights
- Mood tracking & journal
- Unlimited practice sessions
- Conflict resolution tools
- 240+ date night ideas
- Priority support
Ready to stop fighting?
Download Pancake today and start building the relationship you deserve. Free to try, no credit card required.